Now it took me a while, and a few great soul sisters to figure this one out. So me just giving away my bounty to the dude that rolled up to me - named the same name as the one I am trying to sort things out with - was definitely a 'sign' and this is what they suggested:
Next time a dude rolls up to me whether in a car or on foot, instead of handing over all my 'goodies' invite him to harvest that goodness with me, get to know me, and co-create our bounty. wow. What a lesson from raspberries! The were delicious!
Luv and Light~ Kelly xx